Sex God's Way
Sex God’s Way
3 keys to finding that awesome forever love who won’t let you down
- NO SEX! – Seriously! In today’s world? Yes. Seriously. If you commit yourself to waiting until marriage to have sex with a guy until you are married, 99.9% of the users, abusers, players, and creeps will drop out and what you have remaining will be a pretty good batch of guys.
- HEART OF A GIVER – Look for a guy with the heart of a giver. Women tend to be attracted to guys who are in love with themselves and have big egos. They are not going to make you happy and will make you miserable. Find someone who makes sacrifices for others and cares about people. He will do the same for you.
- TALKS ABOUT JESUS – If you are lucky enough to find a guy that also likes to talk about Jesus snatch him up. The biggest influence factor in your walking with God in heaven one day is the influence of the man you marry. He will raise up Godly children who bless you and not curse you. He will pray for you, nurture you, and protect you. And yes. You will still have awesome sex when the time comes. And yes. That is important too.
You may think that at the age of 60 I have forgotten just how hard it is to refrain from sex when young, horny, and dating. Not so. Glory!!! LOL. I still get tempted when a hot sexy young wild thing wants to fulfill my utmost fantasy’s. And yes. That does happen. Every cell in my body is screaming yes! And it is nearly impossible to resist the temptation to give in and go for it.
So why don’t I? and how do I manage to resist such overwhelming temptation? Glad you asked.
Number one. You have to decide in advance who you are and what your core values are. If you don’t do that, in the moment you WILL give in. You are what you do. Do you really want to act like one of his “bitches and hoes”? That’s what you will become. You are better than that. You are a precious child of God. Your body is amazing and sacred. Don’t sell yourself so cheap. He will admire, respect and love you so much more. If he doesn’t thank God, you found out in time. Nothing is worse than being in a relationship with a selfish user and abuser.
Secondly. As a married man I do not want to be that guy that cheats on his wife. Cheating is kind of like losing one’s virginity. Once you cross that line you can never go back to being that loyal husband that has never cheated on his wife. Plus, my wife doesn’t deserve to be married to a man that cheats on her. I would be betraying the one I love dearly and have committed my life to.
Third Factor. Sexual immorality destroys our relationship with God. I have experienced the amazing hand of God in my life. I have experienced the emptiness and loss when I have walked away from having that relationship. God is sweet and good. Sin is fun and can feel awesome but in the end leaves us empty and sad. So I determine in my heart to follow Him and only with His help by daily walking with Him can I resist the big temptations when the hot and heavy moments hit.
So the decision is yours. Do you want to enjoy the enticing pleasures of awesome sex and orgasms now and risk paying for it for the rest of your life and the life to come? Or do you want to take the high and more difficult road that leads to having an awesome husband, family, and a future in heaven with a loving God. It really is that simple. You make the choice. Don’t just let life happen. That never works.
As founder of Pup-etts for a Better World I am committed to promoting values that lead to a better life and giving as a path to happiness and fulfillment. I also believe in telling the truth in plain, simple, and bold language whether or not that makes me popular or offends people.
Watch for my upcoming article on how someone can “get her cherry back” and become a virgin again even if she has fallen to temptation and had sex. I will prove this is possible and tell you how many times you can “fall” and still regain your virginity. Let me know if you are interested in receiving this article once I have written it.
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Dan Graham
Pup-etts for a Better World